Sunday, September 26, 2010

Traveler’s Anonymous


    Just woke up, having a morning coffee, contemplating to myself whether a traveler can actually ever stop traveling? The reason this has come to me is that at present I feel the travel itch, again...  I want to pull myself away from the safety of day to day existence and throw myself back into the unknown. I like chaos and the whirlwind of experience. Jack Kerouac (the original Duluoz) in his own words explains best the kind of people I like to know.  “The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved...” Lots of these people make up my travel friends. We’re a group fighting the normalising aspects of society, and the normalizing aspects of our very brains.

      Everyday life is about establishing and building patterns. It’s even hard wired into our brains. The other day in a class I’m taking we discussed how in early adolescents the brain has a second mass growing of synaptic connections. This renaissance of connections, which brings the possibility of learning MANY new things, is then systematically pruned down so that the connections that remain can work more efficiently. In this way our own brains are looking to limit us –if we let them.  We’re built to look for and take comfort in the patterns of our lives.  Travel is a kind of fountain of youth against this. Rather than stay within the confines of pattern it forces one to leap forward into the unknown of sensory experience. The traveler’s brain has to grow; has to modify; has to transcend itself. Otherwise, you have that person on a trip that sits and complains about how it’s not like home.
      I believe certain people can get a kind of addiction to the rush of travel.  For myself when I first arrived in the UK ten years ago I scarcely needed to sleep or eat for a week. I had a natural high from experience. Now time and time again, I feel myself compelled to try to regain that feeling... to take back that sense of excitement and euphoria. Maybe, I’m chasing the original high I experienced in the UK? Many of my travel friends are the same.  We all share that compulsion to travel again even if it means altering, delaying, or just out right changing our lives to do it. If we ever are to settle into regular lives maybe what is needed is some kind of support group – a traveler’s anonymous.  Like addictions groups we’d meet and try to slow this unending impulse to travel. Or, as probably would be the case, somebody would pull out some beer and the group would share ideas for NEW even more exciting trips!

7 comments:

  1. It may be the symptoms of a luring addiction to traveling... but I'm actually jealous of people like you.

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  2. Nothing to be jealous of these days though. I "think" about traveling now all the time, I haven't been actually doing as much.

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  3. So true.

    I've come to accept the fact that the desire for experience(s) has quickly eclipsed any form of material desire. Would I rather have a car or live in Paris? To me it's a no-brainer.

    Interesting re: the fountain of youth. Let's have this conversation 50 years from now.

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  4. I should add that the two lifestyles are not mutually exclusive. You can proceed with success while indulging the wanderlust.

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  5. Interesting, I'm now wondering who the elusive "C" is? Definitely success in many ways can combine with wander lust. I have some friends, all of whom were travelers before, who now translate their monetary success into really interesting trips to diverse locales each year. Though more often than not, I see travelers I’ve known avoiding serious responsibilities and commitments to keep themselves “free”. I guess a question that is inherent is this. Are you really a traveler if you haven’t uprooted your life to live somewhere outside of your country for an extended period Or, are you a person that takes interesting trips? To do the former with any kind of regularity requires a freedom that mainstream life goes against...
    Re: The fountain of youth. Yeah let’s have that conversation in 50 years.

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  6. Im actually going to follow your blog! :)
    I must leave my Sweden soon for the viking in me wants to use her sealegs again,you make me wanna rebell against everything keeping me here! Tank you for regained spirits. Tack och Adjö

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  7. Thanks Jenny! You want to leave Sweden where as I'd love to go to Sweden again...

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